We all want someone like that, someone that no matter what has your back. But really when it comes right down to it how many people out there would really have your back?
I was sitting thinking about this today. I have my best friend and I think she would have my back when it got down to it, and I would have hers. But when we are talking about friendships that don’t go as deep as a best friend relationship would that person really have your back?
I find it rather funny that when you are “friends” with someone and somebody is mean to you they are like “oh man that sucks if I heard that I would have totally stuck up for you”, but then you turn around and the person that was mean to you is trash talking you to your “friend” and are they sticking up for you, NO, they are agreeing and laughing like an idiot. I don’t know if I am only one in this world that will stick up for the little guy or at least for someone I consider my friend, I sure hope not.
I have had this happen to me a number of times in my life and I still have it happen to me. Life is not fair I know that but it would be nice to have someone have your back and really mean it. I mean I don’t what someone to stab anybody but it would be nice to at least think you would threaten to do it.
Don’t get me wrong, I have really good friends, The best and each one of them has been handpicked because I know they truly have my back, and they know I have there’s, I just don’t want people to pretend like they are my friend or at least if you are not pretending, don’t act like you care enough about me to stick up for me if you’re not going to do it.
Sorry about this blog guys, but this has been bugging me all day and I needed to get it out. And that is why I created this blog to say what is on my mind rather than posting it all over Facebook for everyone to “Like” ;-)
-Bex
